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Our Youth Development Resource Portal is being developed thanks to a grant from the Pallottine Foundation’s Healthy Communities Initiative.

ADOLESCENT DEVELOPMENT

ADOLESCENT DEVELOPMENT EXPLAINED

Guide that examines the major developmental changes that occur in adolescence.

COMPLETE GUIDE TO DEVELOPMENTAL MILESTONES

A guide to normal childhood development meant to help you identify when your child might need professional attention.

VIDEO: PART 1 OF LET'S DIG DEEP: Developmentally Appropriate Practices (DAP)

A short video explaining the phrase "developmentally appropriate practices" and the importance of a developmentally appropriate home, classroom, and community for children.

VIDEO: PART 2 OF LET'S DIG DEEP: Developmentally Appropriate Practices (DAP)

A short video explaining the phrase "developmentally appropriate practices" and the importance of a developmentally appropriate home, classroom, and community for children.

VIDEO: PART 3 OF LET'S DIG DEEP: Developmentally Appropriate Practices (DAP)

Dr. Nefertiti Poyner shares a personal learning experience, where she actually neglected developmentally appropriate practices. But when you make mistakes, you can learn, grow, and be better!

VIDEO: PART 4 OF LET'S DIG DEEP: Developmentally Appropriate Practices (DAP)

Dr. Nefertiti Poyner talks about how we can all work to promote developmentally appropriate practices.

DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES AWARENESS MONTH RESOURCE GUIDE 2024

This guide from the National Association of Councils on Developmental Disabilities offers a collection of activities, messaging tools, and educational resources to help communities celebrate Developmental Disabilities Awareness Month. It provides practical ways for organizations, families, and advocates to promote inclusion, visibility, and disability pride.

DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES AWARENESS MONTH RESOURCE: Breaking Barriers to Inclusion

This article explores the significance of Developmental Disabilities Awareness Month and highlights ongoing barriers to inclusion, accessibility, and community participation. It also offers practical strategies for promoting equity, visibility, and meaningful support for people with developmental disabilities.

2026 DD AWARENESS MONTH: We’re Here: Then, Now, Always. – NACDD

This NACDD campaign page introduces the 2026 Developmental Disabilities Awareness Month theme, We’re Here: Then, Now, Always, highlighting the history, present contributions, and future vision of people with developmental disabilities. It provides storytelling tools, graphics, and outreach resources to help communities promote inclusion, visibility, and year‑round advocacy.

Adolescent Development
Conflict Resolution

CONFLICT RESOLUTION

FAMILY ENGAGEMENT IN PEACE EDUCATION YOUTH WORKBOOK

This workbook is an introductory peace‑education guide for families, offering activities for elementary, middle, and high school students to explore conflict, emotional awareness, nonviolence, and community engagement. It provides structured, age‑appropriate exercises that help children understand peace within themselves, their relationships, and the wider world.

5 CONFLICT RESOLUTION STRATEGIES THAT ACTUALLY WORK - PON - Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School

This Harvard Program on Negotiation article outlines five research‑backed conflict‑resolution strategies—such as recognizing differing perceptions of fairness, avoiding escalation, uncovering underlying interests, and reframing “us vs. them” thinking—to help people resolve disagreements more effectively. It emphasizes curiosity, perspective‑taking, and collaborative problem‑solving as the core of successful conflict management

THE FIVE STEPS TO CONFLICT RESOLUTION | Canadian Management Centre

This page from the Canadian Management Centre outlines a five‑step conflict‑resolution process—identifying the source, looking beyond the incident, requesting solutions, finding mutually supported options, and reaching agreement—to help managers and teams resolve workplace disputes more effectively. It emphasizes active listening, probing questions, and collaborative problem‑solving as essential skills for mediators and leaders.

4 CONFLICT RESOLUTION TIPS THAT WILL ACTUALLY WORK | Pollack Peace Building Systems

This article gives four quick conflict‑resolution tips—pause before reacting, gain perspective, watch your nonverbal cues, and avoid unhelpful behaviors—to help you handle disagreements more calmly and effectively.

HEALTHY CONFLICT INTO BETTER RELATIONSHIPS & PRODUCTIVITY | Pollack Peace Building Systems

This article explains how “healthy conflict” can strengthen workplace relationships, improve decision‑making, and spark innovation when handled with respect and open communication. It outlines the characteristics of healthy vs. unhealthy conflict and offers strategies for using disagreement as a tool for growth.

DE-ESCALATING TEAM CONFLICT: A Manager's Intervention Guide

This guide provides managers with a step‑by‑step framework for de‑escalating team conflict, including when to intervene, how to hold separate and joint conversations, and how to address identity dynamics and defensiveness. It offers practical scripts, questions, and follow‑up strategies to help leaders facilitate understanding, rebuild trust, and restore productive collaboration.

3 TYPES OF CONFLICT & HOW TO ADDRESS THEM - PON - Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School

This article explains the three most common types of workplace conflict—task conflict, relationship conflict, and value conflict—and shows how each requires a different resolution strategy. It emphasizes active listening, uncovering underlying interests, building rapport, and seeking mutual understanding rather than “winning,” especially when values are involved.

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GOALS

HELPING MENTEES TO SET & ACHIEVE GOALS

Guide to helping mentees set and pursue goals.

Goals

LGQBT+

FACTS ABOUT LGBTQ+ YOUTH & SUICIDE

LGBTQ youth are not inherently prone to suicide risk because of their sexual orientation or gender identity but rather placed at higher risk because of how they are mistreated and stigmatized in society.

VIDEO: LGBTQ+ YOUTH

Video on LGBTQ+ youth and mental health. "Youth who identify as LGBTQ are at increased risk for mental health problems, bullying, and suicidal thoughts. Adults must be mindful of listening."

SUPPORTING LGBTQ+ YOUTH DURING COVID

Statistics, tips, and resources on supporting LGBTQ+ youth during the pandemic.

HOW TO SUPPORT LGBTQ+ CHILDREN

Learn how families can best support LGBTQ+ youth, how parents can help keep LGBTQ+ kids safe, and some common challenges for LGBTQ+ youth.

CREATING SAFER SPACES IN SCHOOL FOR LGBTQ+ YOUNG PEOPLE | The Trevor Project

This guide from The Trevor Project offers actionable steps for educators, administrators, and students to foster safer, more inclusive school environments for LGBTQ+ youth. It emphasizes allyship, anti-bullying strategies, and ways to signal support, ensuring that all students feel respected and affirmed.

JUST THE FACTS: A Primer for Principals, Educators, and School Personnel

Just the Facts provides information and resources for principals, educators and school personnel who confront sensitive issues involving gay, lesbian, and bisexual students.

SAFE & SUPPORTIVE SCHOOLS

The Safe and Supportive Schools Project promotes safe and supportive environments to prevent HIV and other sexually transmitted infections among adolescents.

SUPPORTING LGBTQ+ STUDENTS – MICRO-CREDENTIALS | National Education Foundation

This stack of six micro-credentials is designed to help educators understand how to create a safe and inclusive classroom environment for LGBTQ+ students.

FLIP IT! TRANSFORMING CHALLENGING BEHAVIOR

FLIP IT‘s four simple steps for transforming challenging behavior in young children are: F – Feelings, L – Limits, I – Inquiries, P – Prompts. Teachers and parents can help children learn about their feelings and gain self-control by using that mnemonic. These Flip It! resources are designed to support all adults who interact with young children.

2024 POST ELECTION EDUCATOR RESOURCE

This post‑election educator guide from the Human Rights Campaign’s Welcoming Schools program outlines practical, trauma‑informed actions teachers and school staff can take to support LGBTQ+ students and families during politically tense moments. It offers concrete strategies for inclusive classroom management, addressing bias‑based bullying, strengthening family engagement, and creating safe, affirming school environments.

STARTING (or reigniting) GSA SPACES - School Mental Health Ontario

This post‑election educator guide from the Human Rights Campaign’s Welcoming Schools program outlines practical, trauma‑informed actions teachers and school staff can take to support LGBTQ+ students and families during politically tense moments. It offers concrete strategies for inclusive classroom management, addressing bias‑based bullying, strengthening family engagement, and creating safe, affirming school environments.

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MENTORING

BECOMING A BETTER MENTOR

Strategies guide of tangible mentoring core skills, key principles, and best practices.

YOUTH MENTORING NETWORK

The Youth Mentoring Network provides children facing adversity, a strong and enduring, professionally supported one-to-one relationship that enhances their lives.

NATIONAL MENTORING RESOURCE CENTER

The National Mentoring Resource Center provides a collection of mentoring handbooks, curricula, manuals, and other resources that practitioners can use to implement and further develop program practices.

MENTORLOOP

FREE professional mentoring resources.

GROWTH MINDSET FOR MENTORS TOOLKIT

This toolkit introduces mentors to growth mindset principles and provides 17 practical lessons, strategies, and language tools they can use to help youth build resilience, confidence, and a belief in their ability to grow. The accompanying implementation guide supports programs in integrating growth‑mindset practices through training, match support, and organizational culture.

ELEMENTS OF EFFECTIVE PRACTICE FOR MENTORING

Research-informed and practicioner-approved standards for creating & sustaining youth mentoring programs.

MOTIVATIONAL INTERVIEWING FOR PEOPLE WHO USE DRUGS

Learn how motivational interviewing can inspire and improve the behaviors and mindsets of people who use drugs.

VIDEO: MENTORING MATTERS

During the 2011-2012 school year, The Education Alliance had a unique opportunity to learn in-depth about six Walk the Talk Mentoring participants. These students were willing to share their stories. Through their voices we learned about the struggles, dreams, and triumphs many teenagers face each year they are in high school.

WALK THE TALK - MENTORING GUIDE

The transition between middle

school and high school is a pivotal point in students’ lives. They must adapt to new environments and a variety of life changes in order to persist to graduation. A committed adult mentor can make all the difference between success and failure for young people at this critical time.

 

Walk the Talk originally was a four–year high school club that began in November 2008 with generous funding from the AT&T Foundation. Today, The Education Alliance is pleased to introduce a mentoring curriculum based on this program that can serve both middle and high school students in a variety of settings. Walk the Talk pairs caring mentors with young people to help create relationships to support students learning about college and career opportunities and becoming re–engaged in the learning process. Walk the Talk is designed to encourage self-advocacy skills which will prepare the students for their future.

VIDEO: 6 WAYS TO BUILD BETTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUTH

Did you know that young people with mentors are less likely to engage in risky behaviors? Those with mentors are also more likely to have a better relationship with their parents, better communication skills, and higher self-esteem. But how do you build positive and meaningful relationships with youth? Watch this video for 6 ways to make it happen!

CREATING A YOUTH MASTER PLAN ACTION KIT

This kit was created not just for you, but for the children, youth, and families in your community. It is based on the latest research and best practices from across the nation and offers a wide-ranging menu of opportunities for municipal leadership to make children, youth, and family issues a community-wide priority. Whether you are ready to launch a major initiative or are just getting started, the ideas in this kit will help you move forward.

VIDEO: SIMPLY STATED - RELATIONSHIPS

A brief video explaining how relationships serve as a protective factor for ourselves and the youth in our lives.

5 STEPS FOR BUILDING & STRENGHTENING STUDENTS' NETWORKS 

This playbook was developed by the Clayton Christensen Institute to help K–12 and postsecondary leadership and nonprofits that work with those institutions implement and adapt strategies, tools, and metrics that build and strengthen their students’ networks.

MENTORING IN RURAL COMMUNITIES: Traveling the Distance - National Mentoring Resource Center

This webinar explores strategies for delivering effective mentoring in rural communities, highlighting creative solutions to transportation barriers, limited resources, and geographic isolation. Panelists share practical approaches and real‑world examples to help programs strengthen connections and support youth across long distances.

ACCESS THE YOUTH OPPORTUNITY TOOLKIT

Search Institute’s Youth Opportunity Toolkit offers practical, research‑based strategies to help adults strengthen developmental relationships with young people. The toolkit includes activities, reflection tools, and guidance designed to boost youth engagement, connection, and long‑term success.

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ONLINE SAFETY

PROTECTING CHILDREN ONLINE DURING COVID-19

Technical note on key priorities and recommendations on how to promote positive online experiences for children.

SOCIAL MEDIA USE AND BALANCE

How social media use can impact mental health and tips for finding social media balance.

GUIDE TO SAFELY USING THE INTERNET

Tips for using online resources safely when in an abusive relationship.

DIGITAL CITIZENSHIP SKILLS

The StopBullying.gov Digital Citizenship Skills resource promotes responsible online behavior and offers guidance for parents and educators to help youth prevent cyberbullying through digital safety and etiquette education.

HOW TO TALK WITH TEENS ABOUT DATING IN THE AGE OF SOCIAL MEDIA - KVC West Virginia

This guide helps parents understand how teens navigate relationships in the digital age, offering practical tips for fostering healthy communication, setting boundaries, and supporting safe online behavior. It provides straightforward strategies to help families talk openly about dating, technology, and emotional well‑being.

Online Safety
Tutoring a Student

POSITIVE YOUTH DEVELOPMENT

VIDEO: HOW CARING ADULTS PROMOTE POSITIVE YOUTH DEVELOPMENT

Presentation at the CEBM, "Strengthening the Links Between Formal & Informal Mentoring".

BUILDING POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS WITH STUDENTS

Positive relationships build motivation, create safe spaces for learning, build new pathways for learning, and improve student behavior

DEVELOPMENTAL RELATIONSHIPS FRAMEWORK

Developmental relationships are the roots of thriving and resilience for young people, re­gardless of their background or circumstances. Through these relationships, young people discover who they are, cultivate abilities to shape their own lives, and learn how to engage with and contribute to the world around them.

BENEFITS OF YOUTH MENTORING TALKING POINTS

This fact sheet summarizes the wide‑ranging benefits of youth mentoring, highlighting evidence‑based impacts across education, mental health, identity development, workforce readiness, and community well‑being. It also outlines the national mentoring gap, common program challenges, and the critical need for increased investment to ensure every young person has access to a supportive, trusted adult.

ACCESS THE YOUTH OPPORTUNITY TOOLKIT

Search Institute’s Youth Opportunity Toolkit offers practical, research‑based strategies to help adults strengthen developmental relationships with young people. The toolkit includes activities, reflection tools, and guidance designed to boost youth engagement, connection, and long‑term success.

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